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SAFETY · WRITTEN BY ADULTS, FOR ADULTS

Bold in private.
Careful with each other.

Ohrny only works if it's safe. Here's the full picture — what we build into the product, the rules we hold ourselves to, and what to do if a meeting goes sideways.

100%
ID-VERIFIED MEMBERS
24h
DEFAULT CHAT LIFETIME
<6m
MEDIAN REPORT RESPONSE
0
TOLERANCE FOR HARASSMENT
CHAPTER ONE · THE FIVE PILLARS

Five things we do before you even open the app.

Safety isn't a feature you toggle. It's the floor we built the product on.
These aren't optional and you can't pay your way around them.

01

Real, verified humans

One-time liveness check at signup matches a moving face to a government ID. We verify, then forget — the video is destroyed within 30 days.

  • No photo-only profiles, ever
  • Bots and catfish caught at the door
  • Re-verify if you change your face photo
02
SCREENSHOT BLOCKED

Screenshots, denied

System-level capture is blocked on iOS and Android inside Ohrny. If anyone tries — even with a third-party tool — both of you get a notification and the chat re-blurs.

  • Photos can't be saved or forwarded
  • Voice notes are session-only
  • Mirroring & screen-share also blocked
03
EXPIRES
24:00

Chats that forget

Every thread auto-deletes 24 hours after the last message — or instantly if either person leaves. Nothing retained on our servers after the timer ends.

  • You can extend or shorten per-chat
  • Voice notes follow the same rule
  • End-to-end encrypted in transit
04
● BEACON · LIVE

The safety beacon

Going on a date? Loop in one trusted contact for the night. They see your location, who you're meeting (handle only), and a panic button. Auto-cancels at 3 AM or your tap.

  • Friend doesn't need an Ohrny account
  • Silent SOS looks like nothing on screen
  • Auto-call to local emergency line if held
05
@iris.quietpaired
@m.k_03revoked
@late.trainpaired

You can always re-blur

Photos unlock when you both swipe — and re-blur the moment either of you taps the lock again. No screenshots in the meantime, no recovery from elsewhere.

  • Revoke an old match instantly
  • Block stops them from ever seeing you
  • "Forget me" wipes both sides of the thread
06

A team actually answers

Reports route to a small trained moderation team — not a bot, not a contractor. Median response under six minutes. We act, then we tell you what we did.

  • Trauma-informed reviewers, on rotation
  • One-tap report from any chat or profile
  • Repeat offenders permanently banned
CHAPTER THREE · COMMUNITY RULES

Six lines we don't cross.

These aren't suggestions. Cross them and you're out — usually within minutes, always within hours.

01

Consent is the whole game.

Every photo, every plan, every escalation needs an explicit yes. "They didn't say no" isn't consent.

02

No deception about your situation.

If you're partnered, your partner has to know and agree. Lying about availability is grounds for permanent removal.

03

Photos stay in the app.

Never ask someone to send pictures elsewhere. Never share Ohrny photos off-platform. Both are bannable.

04

Adults only, every time.

Ohrny is 18+. We verify. Anyone soliciting or impersonating a minor is reported to authorities and banned for life.

05

No money, no marketing.

No sex work solicitation, no MLM, no "follow my OnlyFans," no crypto, no real-estate pitches. This isn't a marketplace.

06

Outing someone is the worst thing you can do here.

Sharing, screenshotting, or threatening to expose another member's identity off-platform is a permanent, instant ban. No appeals.

CHAPTER FOUR · IF SOMETHING GOES WRONG

Reporting, in plain words.

No 14-step form. No ticket numbers. You tap, we read it within minutes, and we tell you what we did.

STEP 01

Tap the flag.

Every chat, profile, and photo has a small flag in the top-right corner. One tap opens a six-line form — what happened, when, do you want them blocked.

TAKES ABOUT 30 SECONDS
STEP 02

A human reads it.

Reports route to a moderator on shift, not a queue. They see the chat history (encrypted, opened only with your report), and act. You get a confirmation in under six minutes, on average.

MEDIAN RESPONSE · 5 MIN 41 SEC
STEP 03

You hear back.

Within 24 hours we tell you the outcome — warning, suspension, ban, escalation to authorities — in clear language. If we got it wrong, you can request a review. So can they.

24 HOURS · ALWAYS WRITTEN